The generation gap and the conflicts that appear together with it are only of the causes that make problems appear between parents and children.
We all know that our fathers never agree with our way of dressing, that always say the skirt is too short or the pierce should be removed from the belly or the eyebrow. Still this is only an example and it is not a general rule. On the other hand, things could go worse and find out that our parents don't like our boyfriend or they would be very happy if we changed him with somebody else. That moment real conflicts appear as they don't allow you to go out and they are always checking on you and you get to lie to them just to meet the person you like. And, if by any chance, they find out you have been lying to them the thi
rd world war is about to break out.
One of the solutions to all these problems would be to communicate more, to tell what is bothering you and what do you consider to be the best thing to do. If you are patient and try to understand things from another perspective maybe the situation wouldn't seem so odd.
Always try to listen what others are telling you and never say "no" from the very beginning. Say at least "maybe you are right" and I'm sure that father won't see your skirt so short.
All teenagers know the fact their parents want what it's best for their children, but "best" can be seen from various perspectives.
Spending more time with your parents and talking even about insignificant things would lead to a better communication, thus to a better understanding between the members of the family. In this way all would be happier.
If we let distance, daily routine and other external factors to allienate us from our family, we would always have to face problems and the family environment would turn into a living hell, making the children want to leave their parents' home as soon as possible.
Communication Is The Answer written by Herminne Tonita for FamousWhy.com
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