You are sure that you have found your soul mate. You can't imagine your life without him, because you are nothing. This is real love. Is it?
A relationship based on love is built on reciprocity, sincerity and truth. You don't have to play a part, you can be yourself any moment and this gives you a feeling of fulfillment. You feel great together, you have a lot in common, but also separate ideas, beliefs and hobbies. You miss each other when you are apart but you are never afraid he might leave you for another woman. You know each other very well and you accept the good parts but also the bad ones; you don't try to change the partner and turn him into something you would like him to be.
The small differences that separate you are in fact the things that really
make you bond. Go on this way and you will live happily ever after as you have had the luck to meet real love.
The "nightmare" :"I can't live without you."
Addiction is when you say: "I love him too much, I could never let him go!" and you are ready to take everything from him, to suffer from insignificant gestures, or words, forgiving him all over again because you are too afraid to lose him.
When your friends don't count any more, when you forget about your family or your hobbies, you have to realize you are becoming obsessed with him. When you spend whole hours on the phone telling him how mush you love him and you don't feel like doing anything when he is not around.
Now you are crazy about the same things as he is. You don't have anything else to tell him except for: "As you wish, darling!" Or, on the contrary, to complain that you feel neglected, which means that he doesn't love you anymore and if he leaves you for another woman you will die.
You don't trust yourself, you don't have dignity and you even allow him to hit you because, like always, you were the one to blame.
"The object" of your worship sooner or later will disappoint you and you will remain scared, sad or on the other hand mean and ready to make him pay.
Learn to treasure you more because the person who doesn't love himself can't love somebody else. Trust more your friends and ask them to help you get over the "ghosts" of the past.
Do You Love Him or Are You Addicted to Him? written by Herminne Tonita for FamousWhy.com
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