There are days when everybody or everything gets on your nerves. We all have our ad days. But what do you do when your child is near you and everything he does doesn’t seem right to you?
It is very difficult to be all the time a nice smiling mother. Sometimes you don’t succeed to loose your anger and you free your "bad" thoughts only when you get home. There are innocent persons around you who get to suffer due to your having had a bad day.
The moment something goes wrong and you are not pleased with something you feel tense and nervous about everything that goes around you. You can’t explain very well what is going on but you take in on your child or your husband. For example you break a vase. You know that the object meant something for you because it was a
gift from your best friend. You can't say anything because you are the only one to blame.
Children are always very attentive at everything that happens around you then they tend to imitate what they see. So if one of the parents is always angry and upset don't wonder why the kid gets to act the same way.
Even if you don't exteriorize too much your child understands very well that you are upset. Children are very receptive at all the details that happen around them. It is much easier to give an order and to pretend to be heard than to try and explain the little one why he must do that or this. But specialists say the logic explanation of he events is a necessary step for the child to manifest morality when he is an adult. If you explain why he must wash his hands he will do that more often. The same goes if you burst onto tears in front of him. Explain he is not to blame and you are the only responsible for your state of mind. Don’t let the episode pass as if he didn’t understand a thing, just because he is a child. Clear things up! Eventually apologize!
The effects of your behavior are to be observed in the child's personality. He can become shy, introvert, he can hit his classmates or use bad words when the teacher scolds him. Make sure what you do doesn’t have negative consequences on the child.
Don't Blame Your Children for Something they Haven't Done written by Herminne Tonita for FamousWhy.com
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