How many times haven't you felt envious of your best friend for the fact that he was is so good relationships with his family? He was able to tell them all his problems and his parents were next to him giving him the best advice possible. Don’t you wish the same for you? Or it is just the fact that you feel that could not be possible in your family because there is no communication.
It is true that in the majority of cases parents are to be blamed for the lack of communication with their children. And this can occur as a result of their having preconceived mentalities and they disagree with their children's aims or their modern behaviour. Consequently, children prefer no to tell them their problems or concerns and prefer asking for the help of a friend, a neighbou
r and so on. From this point of view, we should say that parents have a wrong attitude because they should try to listen to their daughter or son and understand their way of seeing things. This is of great help for them to get closer and have the courage to express their feelings and concerns in all situations.
Therefore, we say that families who discuss their problems are happy families because there is,first of all, respect between the members of the family. Each one tries not to judge the other’s behaviour or mistake in a certain situation. They discuss problems openly, analizing the pro and counter parts of them and reaching the best conclusion. Then, they are happy because they feel pleasure when they gather at night to have dinner as they know it’d be a comfortable atmosphere, not a tensed one. There are many cases when people feel embarassed by their situation in the family and prefer doing all types of activities in order not to stay too much time at home, as they are in permanent quarrel with one or more members of the family.
Nowadays, we can notice a change in people's mentalities and the need to be much more independent than in the past. This leads to rebelious behaviours which cause quarels between children and their parents which should however be diminished with the help of a good communication.
Families Who Discuss Their Problems Are Happy Families written by Cristina Nuta for FamousWhy.com
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