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How Do We Eliminate the Rivalry Between Brothers?

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How Do We Eliminate the Rivalry Between Brothers? by Herminne Tonita -

Children fight for stupid things like toys or just to feel they are in the center of attention. The rivalry between brothers never stops. Turn it into something positive!

A family where the children get along perfectly and never fight is a dream world one, without any connection to reality. In most families these arguments are normal because children fight for foolish things.

You have to control yourself and don't come between them. Leave them work things by themselves. They will learn their limitations and how to make up. You don't have to stay between them all the time and interfere every minute. If you agree with one of them the other will feel neglected and that you love him less. It is good for you to interfere only when it is compulsory- when they break something in the house or become aggressive.

One thing is for sure. You can't neglect a child for the other. But you mustn't fall in the trap of the false equality. Children are different in what concerns age, personality, needs and you have to take into consideration all these. You don't solve things buying a sixth grade child a mobile phone just because his older brother has also one.

Every age has its moments. If you give in to all these claims the rivalry between children will become even more fierce.

You notice how different they really are. One of them is sensitive, the other one naughtier. Their characters are opposed. Each of them is different and they need appreciation for what they are not for what they can't be or you would like them to be. Stay out of comparisons and never tell him that his brother or sister is better than him. Even if it is sometimes true these comparisons hurt him and they can create complexes of inferiority.

Even if there are times when you really want to know who is to blame don't make them say who is the real guilty person. Complicity makes them come together and attenuate the rivalry. It is more important to trust each other than to consider themselves enemies. Make them have interests and hobbies in common and they will communicate more.
How Do We Eliminate the Rivalry Between Brothers? written by Herminne Tonita for FamousWhy.com
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Category: Education  - ( Education Archive)

Date Added: 21 August '07


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