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Is it Possible to Forgive and Forget?

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Forgive and forget are the two words often use together I a same meaning but do u think if u forgive you forget as well? Do you? most of the time it is easy to forgive but difficult to forget we don't easily forget what other's have done with and in whenever we meet them , the whole thing re calls .

Then why do these two words is often use together? There must be some connection between the two phrases. Now let's figure out the relation that if I forgive then why we don't forget and wise versa. And let's learn how to use these two words effectively in our life.

Have you ever come across any incident which you cannot forget but the person who was responsible is guilty and you forgive him then why cont you forgive, that incident hurts you time to time. Consequently you feel vulnerabl e and unsafe and violate your sense of worth. How can we protect our sense from being violated?

What I think we have clear the misunderstanding about the forgive and forget process. We see everything from our lenses and try to impose on others as well.

The first thing we thought is forgiveness is an act of will you need to be wide hearted to forgive but forget is the mind process which you cannot undo and deleted. This will take time to heal.

I totally agree to this statement but to forget anything you have to be positive and this is also an act of willingness try giving the second chance to other person he can delete all the bad things and bad memories by his good action if you won't give him the chance to delete the pervious acts and get yourself locked in a shell then it will take years and years to forget the incident.

Try to build the trust after you forget and regain your worth. A little positive approach will make help you a lot in using these two words effectively and together.

And another thing just don't forgive those who ask u for forgiveness and comes to you forgive people by heart don't forgive just to satisfy your ego forgive to satisfy your conscience then you can easily forget.

By FW Editor

Tags: relationship, friends, forgiveness

Category: Dating & Love  - ( Dating & Love Archive)

Date Added: 03 March '10

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