Many young couples decide to wait before getting married as they believe that marriage is now an old-fashioned institution which causes more hate than love. There are many reasons which would make you believe such statements. When you get married to become in some way addicted to the person to whom you share your life. You always want to know where she is, when she is coming back from work, who her friends are, all those annoying things that drive you crazy. If a marriage, or any relationship is not based on trust, mutual respect and communication then it won't last. Once you become suspicious you tend to lose from sight the positive aspects of the relationship and think only at the negative issues that bother you.
A marriage implies a com
mitment and maybe there are persons who are afraid of doing this. Getting married implies honesty, trust, devotion. When someone is not ready to assume all these things he simply says that papers don't hold a marriage and that you needn't a certificate to prove you love someone and you want to share your life with him.
I don't claim there aren't couples that last for a life-time without getting married or that getting married is a basic rule that should be respected by everybody. We all should do what it's best for our person and for our relationship. Still the decision should be taken by both partners.
You can't speak about hate in a marriage because the basis of a marriage is love. Still, if you are married and you see that things don't get along as they should, there is always the divorce, which is not the best solution, but it eliberates both partners from the "stress" caused by the "old-fashioned" institution of marriage
Marriage Is An Old-Fashioned Institution Which Causes More Hate Than Love written by Herminne Tonita for FamousWhy.com
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