Deciding to unit your destiny with that of the person you love for ever is a major step in your life and you have to think over and over again until you are capable of taking the right decision.
Before saying "I do!" you always should think at how your life will change after you get married and whether you are ready to accept these changes or not. You are more responsible, you have to take care of the house, of your husband, but also of the children who are about to come in the future. You become more mature, as you always have to take of things each day, you have to run the house. You can't make decisions without consulting your husband, you have to take into consideration what he feels, whether he approves of your decisions or not.
Once you get married you h
ave to stop being selfish as you have next to you the person you love the most and who would do anything for you. The same goes for him so don't you think you are the only one who has to make compromises.
Furthermore a marriage implies a lot giving up your time just for you, giving up many of the things you used to do before like going out with the girls or spending your holidays with them at the seaside or in another country.
On the other hand, a marriage also means the same routine each day, which can lead to boredom and unnecessary arguments between partners. This is one of the reasons why partners look for something new in the arms of another man or woman, because they get sick and tired of what they have at home. It goes even worse if all day long you hear complaints and regrets like:" Why have I married you?" Or "You are the worst thing that happened in my life".
You can never get to the point when you regret your choices because it doesn't do you any good, especially when you know the only solution is the divorce and how traumatizing the experience can be.
Marrying someone means responsibility and maturation so always think twice before saying something that will hurt the person next to you.
People Change After Getting Married written by Herminne Tonita for FamousWhy.com
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