Possessive mothers who don't allow their children to discover independency deny their right to be happy.
I think that for someone to call you a good parent you have to know when to let your children feel free, you have to allow them to realize on their on skin what means to live on their own. Even if it is possible that they get hurt. Otherwise they risk becoming inadaptable to the surrounding reality.
My opinion is that mothers must understand there is a time in their lives when they have to let their children, no matter if we talk about daughters or boys. But when a girl gets married and she has a life of her own with her new husband what is the point of her interfering all the time in their lives?
There are moments when you need her pieces of advice beca
use you have to take care of the house and there are things you have no idea about but at the same time you want to enjoy the moments spent with your husband as newly husbands.
There are times when you want to surprise your husband with a romantic dinner, a sexy outfit and candles all over the house. But when you are dancing and enjoying to the full your kissesÃ¢â‚¬Â¦oupsÃ¢â‚¬Â¦your mum, who by the way has the key to your apartment, comes in because she knew you wanted to clean the house and she thought you might need a helping hand. Bad timingÃ¢â‚¬Â¦especially if you also take into consideration the embarrassment and the blush in your husband's cheeks.
You don't want to upset her but she must understand that you have got your own life and you don't want to feel controlled like she used you do when you were in high school. You have now a family of your own and there are times when you want to be let to take your own decisions, even if they might be right or wrong.
Possessive Mothers written by Herminne Tonita for FamousWhy.com
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