Sometimes parents spoil too much their children, because they offer them too much attention and try to carry out all their wishes: they buy children all the toys they want, the clothes they wish or the sweets they adore. It is true that a good mother wants her child to be happy and to spend with him or her the most time possible. Anyway, it is sometimes advisable for mothers to leave their offspring much time alone, because he or she needs to create his or her own personality without the influence of the others around.
Mothers’ behaviour can be, at times, negative for their children if they spoil them too much. A child should also know that things cannot always happen the way they want to, and they have to accept this. Crying and yelling aren’t always the perfect w
ays to impress their mother or father, in order to convince them do a certain thing. Therefore, mothers who use to spoil their children too much should not give up their jobs in order to stay at home with their children, because they give a negative education to these. Children will be used to do nothing, not even take food from the refrigerator because they know their mother is at home and does if for them. A girl won’t be able to iron a blouse, because is her mother's duty to do that for her, while she can do other things like watching TV, listening to music or applying some make-up to go out with friends.
In my opinion, a good mother knows what education to give to her children without giving up her job. Moreover, a mother is a good mother when she is able to combine the both things: the education of her children and the job. Even if she doesn’t have much time to spend with her offspring, a good mother knows what advice to give her child, to listen to his or her problems, to help a little with the homework and to offer him or her the independence he or she needs. A child should be able to learn how to take decisions by his or her own and not always ask his or her mother to be next to him or her in difficult moments.
Should a good mother give up her job to stay at home with her children? written by Cristina Nuta for FamousWhy.com
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