Mary is looking in the mirror and she hates what she sees. She is running out of time and she doesn't find anything to put on.: "How could I have bought this awful pink dress? It is disgusting. I look like a piggy when I'm wearing it".
"I'm ready, let's go!" Mary's husband is screaming. Then he sees all the clothes spread all over the room. "Don't make such a fuss over it! Keep the pink dress! It suits you perfectly. You are very nice!"
"Nice? Hell, no!" She begins arguing with him! " I look horrible! I can't understand why you are saying this when you can wait for five minutes longer, while I find something to make me look like a human being. It isn't too difficult, isn't it?"
Angry, her husband walks out of the room :" Who can understand you? You don't wa
nt to receive advice from anyone. I sometimes want to give up and leave you alone to decide by yourself everything!"
This is a classic situation in which neither of the partners says what he really has on his mind. She is stressed and needs comfort and tenderness. She doesn't believe what he is telling her. On the other hand, he considers that simple pieces of advice could solve the issue.
On the other hand, he sees that she is not pleased with her looks. His flattering words are refused and that is why he gets to the point when he doesn't understand his wife.
How frequently one can get to this kind of situations! She asks him if he would like to do something particular this weekend, he answers that he doesn't care too much about the aspect and the conflict starts. She considers he doesn't care about their relationship, that he doesn't get involved in the couple and their relationship.
His answer should be taken accordingly as men don't feel the need to make any arrangements. Most of them consider this is a waste of time and a useless loss of energy. In fact, he tells her he would be glad to take part in the already planned weekend. The most important question that needs a quick answer is: Do men and women speak the same language ? Is there a specific language for men and other for women?
Recent studies show that women are meant to talk more openly than men do, they find easier the right words, especially when they talk about sentimental affairs.
Men are much more direct, honest and they bring logic arguments to their opinions. Still, men can learn from women and the other way around. The recipe for a successful relationship would be the communication between the partners. Psychologists say it is very important to show your partner what you really feel for him. Also it is desirable to formulate your needs quite clearly. Compromises and accepting the concept that nobody is perfect are only a few of the tips for a successful relationship.
Why are People so Complicated written by Herminne Tonita for FamousWhy.com
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