More and more women have got to the point when they get married after 30. The reason admitted by the majority is career. The hidden reason is the more and more accentuated fear of responsibility in a couple. And not only of responsibilities but also of what could happen between the four walls?
At first all things seem taken from paradise but in a short period of time you realize that everything is a lie and that reality is totally opposed to all your dreams. At first he seemed romantic and eager to prove to you how much he was in love with you. After two months of living together there are some mornings when he forgets to greed you.
He was from the beginning like this but you didn't notice or you pretended you didn't notice. Life in two is much more than love,
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You also have to pay bills when you are running out of money, it also means less pleasant tasks you have to accomplish, it means things you have no idea about, but which you have to take care of.
You have to come to an agreement in what concerns family, career and friends. What are you going to do when you have so many things on your head and you don't know how to handle them?
Are you sure you will be able to live next to them for the rest of your life? There are persons who choose not to get married so as not to feel the burden of the vowels on their shoulders. They learn to make compromises and to accept they are not alone anymore. Many persons freak out when they hear about getting married and the relationship begins to lose its excitement. You pay attention more to the problems you have not to the person who is next to you.
It is advisable that both of you gave up your small "obsessions" and to be able to accept the fact the other may be right and you are wrong. Every day you have to make time to love in love again and again.
Why Do Women Choos To Postpone The Wedding? written by Herminne Tonita for FamousWhy.com
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